Perfectionism, also known as Just Right OCD, is one of the most common ways obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is portrayed in movies and on television. A character with OCD is typically oversimplified and shown as constantly arranging items until they’re perfectly aligned, and may be called a “neat freak.” Outside of the media, we’ve also colloquially developed stereotypical phrasing for someone who is extraordinarily clean and organized, dubbing them “so OCD.”
These stereotypes can be harmful and misleading, potentially deterring someone with unhealthy perfectionist tendencies from receiving the help they need.
You may be asking yourself, what does unhealthy perfectionism look like? Where is the line between healthy and unhealthy? When is it considered OCD? Let’s take a closer look.
Having a meticulously organized closet or turning in perfect assignments may seem like an ideal situation — something to strive for. Perfectionism, when healthy, is a personality trait that often leads to a life of success and excellence. In general, it may be tied to goal-oriented behavior and good organizational skills, both of which are perceived as highly desirable traits.
If you are someone who values perfectionism but does not have OCD, your perfectionist tendencies likely add to your overall life experience. You may follow rigid schedules or hold high standards for yourself and others, but you do these things out of choice — not because of anxiety — and they may genuinely increase the pleasure you get from life.
This is one of the key differences between perfectionism and perfectionism OCD. If you have OCD, your perfectionist tendencies likely are a form of compulsions, meaning you take these actions in order to relieve the distress of intrusive thoughts.
Perfectionism OCD can mean you experience unwanted, intrusive thoughts and enact certain rituals to ease your anxiety. Because there are overlaps between healthy perfectionism and its unhealthy counterpart, it may be hard to identify the symptoms. If you think you may have perfectionism OCD, ask yourself if you feel in control of your thoughts and actions. If the answer is no, you likely have OCD.
Like other subtypes, perfectionism OCD will follow the obsessive-compulsive cycle. Here are a few examples of what your obsessions may look like:
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Your compulsions may look like perfectionist tendencies that, in someone without OCD, would be considered healthy. However, as mentioned before, your tendencies are likely done in an effort to stop your obsessions and the anxiety they cause. This can lead to them feeling out of your control, which may disrupt your normal routine and lead to complications at work or school or in your relationships.
If you feel like your perfectionist tendencies are causing you more harm than good, treatment options are available to help you regain control of your life.
Realizing your perfectionism may be a form of OCD can be scary, but it is also the first step towards living a life free of your obsessive thoughts and unhealthy tendencies.
OCD is a highly treatable disorder, and the most effective form of treatment involves exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy, a form of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). ERP is the gold-standard option for OCD treatment, and it’s easy to understand why. It works by exposing you to various things that trigger your obsessions, and — in a safe and controlled environment — working through your fears, with the help of a trained therapist, to learn how to control the urge to act on them.
If you’re ready to start ERP, you can schedule a free call with the NOCD clinical team to be matched with a therapist. All NOCD therapists specialize in the treatment of OCD and receive ERP-specific training in order to offer you the best help for your symptoms.
With the right therapist, ERP can help you learn how to cope with your intrusive thoughts. Over time, you’ll gain more control over your thoughts and actions, allowing you to experience life free of your fears and compulsions.
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