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Common Fears & OCD Subtypes

OCD subtypes can help people to find community with others who share similar experiences, and they can assist therapists in designing targeted treatment plans, but they don't tell the whole story. If you can't find your subtype, that doesn't mean you don't have OCD—everyone's experience is unique, and many people's OCD symptoms don't fit neatly into any specific theme.

Sexuality and Gender OCD

Sexual orientation OCD (SO-OCD) is a subtype of OCD that is characterized by intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviors around a person’s sexual orientation. It has been referred to as homosexual OCD (H-OCD); however, this term is increasingly discouraged due to its lack of sensitivity. People with SO-OCD experience intrusive thoughts and urges around denial of or confusion about their true sexual orientation. Someone with SO-OCD may experience fears around being perceived as having a certain sexual orientation, such as gay or straight. They might wonder if they have a sexual orientation other than the one they thought. They may fear they are in denial of their “true” sexual orientation. Or, they might fear that their sexual orientation could abruptly change (e.g., “turn” gay or straight) and what this change will mean for their life. (Will they have to leave their family? Will their relationship end when they discover they are not who they think they are?)

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Do you have “unacceptable” unwanted thoughts? You are not alone

Perhaps one of the least talked about topics surrounding Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is “unacceptable” or taboo thoughts. OCD involves repetitive,

By Stacy Quick, LPC

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Bisexuality & SO-OCD: The Invisible SO-OCD

This is a guest post by Sarah Stanton, autistic/ADHD/OCD advocate and facilitator of the NOCD Autism and OCD support group for members in NOCD Therapy.

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Is HOCD the Same as SO-OCD? What You Need to Know

“I don’t even care if I’m gay or straight — I just want to know for sure.”

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Is SO-OCD (HOCD) Just Denial? The Truth About Sexual Orientation OCD

Questioning your sexual orientation is incredibly common, and it’s a thought anyone can have. You might be watching a movie with your significant other

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SO-OCD: Thoughts, Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment

Disclaimer: This article deals with SO-OCD (also referred to as Homosexual OCD or Sexual Orientation OCD) and touches on potentially sensitive issues

By Caryn Gill

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How Can I Stop My Sexual Intrusive Thoughts?

Sexual OCD is a subtype of obsessive-compulsive disorder that can cause disturbing, intrusive, uncharacteristic thoughts and actions. Here’s how to find help.

By Sherry Christiansen

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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How can I deal with sexual dreams about a friend? Advice from a therapist

Learn more about dreams, why you may be so concerned over yours, and how you can get help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do intrusive thoughts during climax mean anything?

Learn what causes intrusive thoughts—particularly during intimate experiences—and how to get help if they impact your life.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Is it wrong to be turned on by violence? A therapist’s take

Let’s dive into the difference between fantasy and true desire and the reason why you might be so worried about being turned on by violence.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Dreams about sexual assault: Do they mean anything?

Sexual assault is among the most immoral behaviors one can think of—but be wary of interpreting disturbing dreams as significant.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Is it normal to question my sexuality for years? A therapist weighs in

I know how frustrating it can be to have persistent uncertainty, doubt, and confusion about your sexuality. Here's what you should know, from an expert.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I’m turned on by furry porn. Does that mean I’m attracted to animals?

Fantasies are safe ways to explore your sexuality, but OCD has a way of twisting your thoughts in ways that are untrue and harmful.

By Jessica Migala

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Intrusive thoughts about rape—do they actually mean anything?

These disturbing thoughts can become completely overwhelming. You're not alone, and you don't have to live in fear of your own thoughts.

By Grant Stoddard

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Fears about incest – What do they mean?

Incest OCD involves intrusive and unwanted sexual thoughts, images, or urges about family members that cause distress or anxiety, as well as compulsions to manage or eliminate this anxiety.

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I watched incest porn. Is there something wrong with me? What therapists say

Sexual fantasies do not necessarily indicate something you want to happen in real life—but some may be especially distressing. Here's what you can do.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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