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Why talk therapy typically isn’t effective for treating OCD

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Jenna Overbaugh, LPC
By Jenna Overbaugh, LPC

Talk therapy, also called psychotherapy, is a process where someone will work with a therapist to talk through their experiences. In talk therapy, a person seeking help can discuss their issues and concerns with a professional who holds no biases or judgment. Talk therapy is very effective for some conditions and can be especially helpful for people going through major transitions or difficult situations, such as an unexpected divorce or loss, to gain a better understanding of their emotions and help them cope. 

However, talk therapy is typically not effective for treating obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). In fact, talk therapy can often exacerbate OCD and make symptoms worse by having those with OCD repeatedly analyze their thoughts and attempt to solve them. That’s why for most people with OCD, talk therapy is not only unhelpful, but can actually be harmful and counterproductive to the OCD recovery journey. 

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The focus on analyzing thoughts in talk therapy

Talk therapy consists of active listening that acknowledges the relationship between emotions, behaviors, and thoughts. Sometimes, there’s no specified structure to guide talk therapy sessions. Instead, talk therapy relies on a patient communicating past experiences, traumas, and underlying thoughts that may be causing or affecting various mental health conditions with their therapist.

When a person with OCD goes to a talk therapist to discuss intrusive thoughts, their therapist will likely try to work with them to understand the thoughts or try to make sense of thoughts. They may focus on the content of the thoughts and discuss in-depth why they may have had that thought, even looking into how their past may have contributed to it. 

This type of process can ultimately be debilitating for someone with OCD. For a person to manage OCD effectively, they need to realize that a thought is just a thought. The thought is neither good nor bad, and it doesn’t have to mean anything or make sense. That’s why in OCD treatment, it’s critical to deemphasize the importance or meaning of intrusive thoughts. 

As OCD specialists, we try to teach people that their intrusive thoughts, images, or urges—known as obsessions—are not actually a problem. What’s reducing their quality of life is their interpretation of those obsessions, and the behaviors they engage in as a result of the distress they produce. Obsessions cause people with OCD to engage in compulsions in an attempt to get rid of anxiety, eliminate uncertainty, or solve a perceived problem. Compulsions are things that are done either internally or externally to neutralize an intrusive fear or thought, but they do nothing to address anxiety and stress long-term—in fact, they only make obsessions worse over time.

How does talk therapy make OCD symptoms worse?

While talk therapy can effectively treat many different issues, the high risk of people with OCD engaging in compulsions without addressing their behavior is what can make talk therapy harmful, particularly due to these three reasons:

  • You might be receiving reassurance, which can be compulsive. When a person is in distress due to their intrusive thoughts, a talk therapist may naturally try to help them alleviate their distress, and in doing so, may provide them with reassurance in an attempt to remove their doubts, fears, or uncertainty. The person may even repeatedly ask the same thing over and over to relieve the anxiety or fear that comes from their obsessions. For someone who has OCD, reassurance-seeking often becomes a compulsion. Only a therapist who deeply understands OCD will know that while providing reassurance might make someone feel better temporarily, it will only reinforce their fears in the long run. They’ll also be better equipped to identify when someone is seeking reassurance in roundabout ways.
  • You might be ruminating verbally, which makes things worse overall. Often, when people with OCD go to talk therapy, they will engage in a cyclical process of analyzing a thought and trying to understand it, without necessarily implementing a solution. Talk therapy sessions can become opportunities for people with OCD to ruminate verbally—or continuously think about the same thoughts and feelings, often far more than is useful—which can also be a compulsion. As with all compulsive behaviors, verbal rumination may provide temporary relief. However, it’s important for people to assess how they are feeling not just after each session, but over time: does the rumination lead to long-term relief from distress? Once again, the answer is likely no, because relying on compulsions only makes OCD worse.
  • It doesn’t focus on changes in behavior, which is crucial for OCD recovery. After a talk therapy session, some people may feel that their session was cathartic or that they experienced an emotional release. That may be true, but likely, their OCD symptoms themselves have not been addressed. Sooner or later, they’ll likely begin to doubt everything they ruminated on and received reassurance for in their session. They’ll realize that little has changed. That’s because there was no behavioral intervention to implement change, which is necessary for OCD recovery. To effectively manage OCD long-term, it’s crucial to challenge OCD fears, accept uncertainty, sit with the resulting discomfort, and reduce or resist compulsive behaviors, such as avoidance and other mental or physical rituals. 

Let’s consider an example: someone begins having intrusive thoughts that they will hit a person when driving. After some time, they may even start to fear that this did happen in the past but they can’t remember it, and they begin to experience extreme guilt. In talk therapy, they might focus on how this is simply logically untrue: “You didn’t hit anyone. Is there blood on your car?”  “Did you see anyone injured?” “It’s ok. You’re fine; everything’s fine.” That will likely feel good for the moment—they’re able to ruminate on their worries and their therapist provides reassurance—but eventually, OCD creeps back. Eventually, their fear of the possibility that they hit someone or might hit someone has become so great that they no longer feel safe driving, and they begin avoiding it altogether. They may continue to discuss this with their talk therapist, but they make little progress in driving without fear, if they keep driving at all. 

That’s why using logic alone doesn’t work for treating OCD: even if someone logically understands that their rituals are irrational, their fear can be so great that they still engage in their compulsions “just in case” or “just to be sure.” To truly overcome OCD, it’s important to learn to live with uncertainty and implement techniques that are focused on retraining thinking and behavior patterns.

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NOCD Therapists have used ERP therapy to help thousands of people regain their lives from OCD. I encourage you to learn about accessing ERP therapy with NOCD.

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Treatment designed for OCD

The key to treating OCD effectively is by seeing a licensed therapist who specializes in OCD and is specialty-trained in exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy. ERP is a form of therapy that was specifically developed to treat people with OCD. Studies show that ERP is the most effective form of treatment for OCD and the best way to recover from it. 

This unique therapy is specifically designed to help people face their obsessions and resist compulsions in healthy and productive ways. In ERP, people are exposed to different situations that provoke their obsessions in a controlled and safe environment, creating the opportunity to resist engaging in compulsions. 

The goal of ERP is to free individuals from compulsions by teaching them how to accept uncertainty so they can live more comfortably. ERP can help people learn that while their discomfort is not pleasant, it’s also not dangerous, it won’t last forever, and that they can tolerate it without resorting to compulsions. ERP will also help increase someone’s self-efficacy, or their own perceived ability to do challenging things. 

People with OCD who receive ERP often require between 12 to 25 sessions of ERP to begin seeing improvement in their symptoms. The length of time it takes for someone to see improvement can vary from person to person and depends on the severity of their symptoms.

How can you find a therapist who specializes in ERP? 

The most important thing to look for when you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in ERP is whether or not they have specific training or experience in ERP. They will know what to anticipate when you describe your thoughts and behaviors, and how to tailor treatment to your unique needs. Their expertise is in teaching you how to manage your OCD so you don’t feel stuck trying to “get rid of” the unpleasant feelings caused by disturbing thoughts.

At NOCD, all therapists specialize in OCD and receive ERP-specific training from some of the top OCD experts and researchers in the world. They’ll use their expertise to design a treatment plan for the OCD themes you’re experiencing and provide non-judgmental support every step of the way. To prevent cost from being a barrier to accessing treatment, at NOCD, we offer affordable options and partner with many insurance plans. To learn more about NOCD Therapy, speak to someone on our care team by scheduling a free 15-minute call with us.

Remember, talk therapy can be helpful in many ways, but for OCD specifically, specialized treatment is needed to get better. With the right type of therapy, you’ll be on the road to freedom from OCD and will begin gaining more control over your life.

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Taylor Newendorp

Taylor Newendorp

Network Clinical Training Director

I started as a therapist over 14 years ago, working in different mental health environments. Many people with OCD that weren't being treated for it crossed my path and weren't getting better. I decided that I wanted to help people with OCD, so I became an OCD therapist, and eventually, a clinical supervisor. I treated people using Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) and saw people get better day in and day out. I continue to use ERP because nothing is more effective in treating OCD.

Gary Vandalfsen

Gary Vandalfsen

Licensed Therapist, Psychologist

I’ve been practicing as a licensed therapist for over twenty five years. My main area of focus is OCD with specialized training in Exposure and Response Prevention therapy. I use ERP to treat people with all types of OCD themes, including aggressive, taboo, and a range of other unique types.

Madina Alam

Madina Alam

Director of Therapist Engagement

When I started treating OCD, I quickly realized how much this type of work means to me because I had to learn how to be okay with discomfort and uncertainty myself. I’ve been practicing as a licensed therapist since 2016. My graduate work is in mental health counseling, and I use Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) therapy because it’s the gold standard of OCD treatment.

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Jenna Overbaugh, LPC

Jenna Overbaugh is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) and has been working with people who have OCD and related conditions since 2008. She graduated from Towson University with a Masters in Clinical Psychology and specialized in OCD, anxiety, and hoarding. She has experience working at all levels of care, including nearly 8 years working at a residential treatment facility with some of the most debilitating cases of OCD in the world.